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This   is   how   my   babywearing   passion   started

10/3/2017

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INTERNATIONAL BABYWEARING WEEK
It’s International Babywearing Week, which has me thinking about how grateful I am for babywearing and the many ways it has made my life as a mother so much better. In our dear Olympia babywearing is quite popular, but it’s not so common in other places. When I was growing up in Mexico the only people I saw babywearing were the local indigenous tribe: Rarámuris. Nowadays the global ancient wisdom of carrying our babies is being popularized again and for a good reason: it’s a game-changer! So today I’m going to share with you my babywearing love story.
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Young rarámuri girls wearing her sibling in my home state, Chihuahua, MX
THE BEST PRACTICAL GIFTS I COULD HAVE GOTTEN
I had a quite unconventional life when I was pregnant with my first child. I spent most of those nine months traveling through the States and Mexico, camping, hiking and making friends with strangers. I loved it.

But on the downside, I was far away from all my family and old friends, so I didn’t have a strong support network during pregnancy and postpartum. No baby shower or meal train were possible. I did get two gifts, one of them was mailed from across the country, and the other one was brought to me by a friend who flew from Germany to see me when I was half way through my pregnancy. And both those gifts were baby carriers.
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Wearing Teal while traveling through Malinalco, Mexico. 2014
I didn't know then how much the carriers would mean and help; I really never imagined how little I knew about life with a newborn. Breastfeeding was a challenge, feeding myself was a challenge, diapering was a challenge, sleeping was a challenge, doing laundry was a challenge, and finding the way to make all these things work while keeping my sanity seems unthinkable without babywearing.
 
At the beginning, I was quite intimidated by the long piece of stretchy gray fabric my friend’s mom had sent a gift. I looked at the instructions and I was overwhelmed. My husband however, bravely grabbed the carrier and with a little bit of trial and error managed to securely wrap it around his body and slip our tiny floppy baby inside. It was amazing.
Since that day my love for babywearing keeps on growing. If Teal was crying inconsolably, we would put him in the carrier and take him for a walk. If we needed to go grocery shopping, we could push the cart and choose the food all while holding him close to us. 
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We could clean, hike, cook and he was just happy to be next to us, feeling our breathing and our warmth. Babywearing was essential when we kept traveling, now with a child. It gave us all a sense of stability and safety even amongst all the changes and challenges we faced those days.
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TIME TO GIVE BACK (BECOMING A BABYWEARING EDUCATOR)

It’s crazy for me to think about life without wearing my babies. It’s been now almost 4 years since I started babywearing and I have now became a Volunteer Babywearing Educator in our local Babywearing International Group. I had the honor to have Ricki Franklin, AKA The Babywearing Boss, be my mentor. I feel so fortunate to have the opportunity to learn about so many different carriers that can fit people with different bodies, babies and needs, because I firmly believe everyone who cares for a baby can benefit from babywearing. It’s a true joy to be able to support my clients during postpartum visits in learning how to confidently wear their babies, to keep them close, strengthen the bond, and give them that sense of safety.

If you, like me, feel intimidated by those pretty carriers that are sitting in a box inside your closet, reach out to your local Babywearing International Chapter. You can find the Olympia area meetings here. You will get great information and find an awesome, supportive community. Don't have time or energy to go to a meeting? Ricki offers private consults in your home to get you confident using any kind of carrier.

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6 Comments
Natasha link
10/4/2017 08:05:22 pm

I relied on babywearing so much with my first. I couldn't get anything done without it. At that time I just had one wrap and one carrier. Now with my new baby Ian experimenting a little with ring slings and different ways to use my wrap!

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Corina link
10/6/2017 08:05:57 am

Thank you for this post and the resources you shared! Babywearing is something I've always felt drawn to but it has always seemed daunting. Your post gave a little hope and confidence!

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Amelia Rebolo link
10/6/2017 08:23:01 pm

I have absolutely loved babywearing! My favorite right now is a ring sling for easy in and out with a curious baby keen to explore. Babywearing international is an amazing learning resource! That's awesome that you have become a volunteer babywearing educator! That is information that all parents need regardless of socio-economic status!

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Jessica link
10/7/2017 05:16:23 pm

I loved your story and how you came to babywearing. It creates such a beautiful bond and makes everyday tasks a little bit easier. Beautiful pictures!

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Toni Botas link
10/10/2017 06:37:31 am

Baby wearing saved my sanity with my 2nd and 3rd babies. I don't know how I would have gotten through the phase of a newborn and toddler without the life-changing magic of baby wearing. It's wonderful to read that you have decided to give back to your community by becoming a baby-wearing educator!

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Rhondda Smiley link
10/12/2017 08:58:30 pm

Now that my daughter is grown, babywearing is one of the things I most miss about having a little one! Babywearing made life together so enjoyable. I have our favourite red sling tucked away for when I become a grandmother!

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